Fashion Dilemma

I have always had a hard time with Fashion. You see I am not the type who's really into fashion and clothes. I am more of a gadget person. I always have a hard time looking for clothes to buy, which to buy and I don't buy that often. I could wear my clothes until they're ripped and old hahaha! But there's a part of me that reallly wants to try to be more kikay, more lady like. I wonder how I'd do it. is this inborn or something one can learn? I don't even have anything to wear for our Christmas party tonight, aack!